Solo Dolo

So I strolled out alone Monday night (YES on a MONDAY!) to a club to listen to a live band...And I had an AWESOME TIME! Going out Solo Dolo is not always bad. You can possibly meet a potential date there or who knows..."THE ONE"!

I went out of my "norm". I usually where my contacts, the shortest dress I can find in my closet and of course those Heels. But this time I wore my glasses and mind you they are old like some years old! I wore a sleek fitted black midi dress that fell below the knee and a Neutral heel. Very Simple. I guess in my mind I was really not wanting to attract to much attention but I got the total opposite. I got tons of compliments on my hair from Women... hecka conversation from Men and at least one guy bought me an Apple Martini to go along with the 4 I had already had.

See... going out alone opens so many doors for potential candidates to focus solely on YOU. They see you alone at a bar...their coming...they see you dressed decent and simple and they know your not out to just be whoreish and get a one night stand but that you really are out to just have a good time... alone or not.

Ladies (and Gents too) being alone is not a Crime...It's Life...sometimes we find our self not where we used to be years, months or days ago...Alone. Embrace it...Be your own company. Get out and meet new people and make your self available to new and exciting experiences. Keep your Heart open...Open Hearts are receptive to OTHER Open Hearts. Invite that mate into your life by being True to Self, remaining open, positive and available.

So I ended my night by dancing the night away with one of my dates that I've been dating for a couple of months now (he meet me there a lil later) and before the night was over I had added at least one potential contact to my list.

Make a pact to yourself to at least stroll out SOLO DOLO at least once a week. You never know what exciting escapade you may get into while out.

Enjoy yourself Lovers!