Keep Riding that "Rollercoaster"...
- Tera S. Tate
- Aug 14, 2017
- 2 min read

We've all been in them...you know that torrential stormatic reoccurring relationship. The one that took us down through the valley, over the mountain top and plunged us deep into the abyss of the ocean...where we ultimately drowned...YES...that ONE. It's over now and guess what? You made it through. Dust your self off...get in line...get your Ticket and let's go on a "Rollercoaster" ride...of Dating.
Until your hitched by the hip and Married; Dating will be your ultimate goal to seek your Final Mate. You will go through multiple candidates. Some good some bad. But that's all apart of the "experience". Write out exactly what you "Want" and "Need" for your potential mate. Light Skin, Dark Skin, 5'6, 6'7 (well you know, I like mine kinda tall), fit and trim, thick and stocky with a lil belly roll ( I call them "playgrounds" and I actually love them) kids, no kids, over 30 & under 50.
Cool. You've written it all out.. now "lay" it all out. Look at yourself. Will YOU be a great "potential" candidate for someone? This Dating thing goes both ways. Be sure you are not laying out expectations and hopes that YOU yourself are not meeting. Be truthful to yourself and you will attract a Mate that exudes YOUR Truth and theirs as well.

So now you've gotten your "Ticket"...it's time to have FUN! Go out and explore places you've never been to with your Date. Do unordinary things together. Find out their extracurricular activities and join them in their adventures. Zip Line through the forest together. (https://goape.com/Locations/Tennessee/Memphis)
Dancing is always fun. That's my favorite. My Date and I always go dancing at least once a week. I've found that us grinding our bodies together is producing this "energy" between us that we cannot resist.
Listening to Live bands are always great Datenite's together. Just do whatever makes you both feel more "connected" to one another. If things change through out the night..go with it! Don't fuss or complain..follow their lead as long as they are not taking you to some dark part of the woods in the middle of the night ( unless of course that's your "Thing").

Your hands are flailing, your hair is blowing, your stomach just dropped 100 feet below and your heart is palpitating a 1000 miles an hour and your loving every... minute... of it. See Roller coasters aren't so bad after all. Don't stop Riding them....Don't Give Up...Keep DATING!
Enjoy yourself Lovers!
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